Dear Pain,
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From the moment I was born and as I grew up, I found myself already betrothed to you. It's strange isn't it? How does someone get betrothed at such an age? I mean, what if I turned out to be a vampire just when I turned thirteen? Weird. But it's more of the culture issue I guess. As far as my memories go by into the past, I remember how you were so obsessed with me. You always fancied that both our names start with 'P' and you would always chorus it lovingly 'Pain and Paranoia'. You were so loving yet so bitter. You were carrying all the world's misery on your shoulders yet you still afforded to spend time with me. You would walk hand in hand with me and you would introduce me to all your friends. I still remember your best friends; Ego, Selfish and Evil. I remember how you would praise me in front of them as if I were the only girl in this world. You wanted the whole world to know how much you loved me and that you would never depart me. I remember all those days you would take me out with your so called best friends and we would have 'fun'. That's what you used to tell me; 'let's go have fun' yet all I remember was hearing the four of you mock people and laugh so loudly. It used to puzzle me a lot. Well, you were quite older than me so I thought maybe I didn't really understand what this 'fun' really meant. For the foolish girl I was, I'd stand next to you; your hand still firmly holding mine, just staring at you and your friends.
I still remember Ego; he was TALL. Really tall that I really had to strain my neck to see his face. But he was still elegant. He was quite handsome and I used to wonder why I wasn't betrothed to him instead. He always had his hands in his pockets and talk with a firm voice. He walked with a bounce and his head was always held high. Is that what they call confidence? I used to admire him but that was then, I was barely fifteen. At that age you barely know how to differentiate between a cheetah and a tiger. I was so naive...but now...now I know everything in this life.
Selfish was hilariously short and it really used to make me laugh at how the four of you could be best friends. I mean, your physiques were so opposite. It is the first thing anyone would notice upon seeing you together. Anyway back to selfish. Selfish was so over confident. I have never seen anyone think so high of themselves. He always wanted to get the biggest share of everything for he thought he deserves it.To me, he looked a bully. I used to see him snatch food from the beggar's mouth. Have you ever seen anyone so cruel like that? But selfish thought he deserves it. Sometimes I used to see him look at me maliciously and it used to freak me out. He probably also thought that he should have me instead of you. Well, you never noticed all that because you were always busy praising to the world about me without looking at their reactions. Maybe you trusted them so much??
Evil...evil was ugly. Damn ugly and ironically, he used to boast about himself like there is no one on this earth like him. Everything about him was ugly; his croaky laughter and even his dark enigmatic smile. He was rough and tough. He was all the three of you combined; he was torment, torture, unpleasant and wicked all together. He always considered himself the ring leader of your group.
I still remember the night your friends raped me. Oh...how can I forget the misery that came after. How can I forget the sadness and despair? You know what pain, you always used to make me wonder which side are you really? When your best friends raped me, you were mad. So mad that it worried me you would explode. Yet you decided to cover it up for them by marrying me. You thought that would make me forget. You thought you could make me happy once again.
Years went by and I gave birth to our first child; insomnia. Oh my son...he wouldn't let me sleep. He made me turn and roll on the bed restlessly. I cried and cried until the wee hours of the night. I cried until I had no more tears. I cried until my pillow was too wet. I cried for you; because of you, for the past, present and future. I cried that you were the only person who loved me so dearly in this life. The only person who wouldn't leave me alone. I treated myself with lots of chocolates and bowls of ice cream. As people say, treating oneself like that is good for the stressed soul...yet this technique didn't work for me. My boy troubled me...but where were you Pain? You were just there with me; like a shadow. Always there yet never giving me the happiness I needed.
Insomnia grew and soon we had our second child. It was a girl this time. I was so happy. I wanted to make her my best friend, teach her how to cook and how to dress up. I had so many plans for her and for us. I called her 'eating issues'. She was so fragile and weak. She had no appetite even to live. Her eyes looked tired and she was weightless like cotton. Eating issues worried me a lot. I worried that she was going to die soon yet she still lives; still as fragile. Still as weak.
Having too troublesome kids is not easy especially when you have an obsessive husband like you Pain. Anyway, God has now blessed me with another bump. A third one is coming. I think it's a 'she'. Don't ask me how I know this. I am a mother, I can feel it. I have been thinking of aborting her for quite a while now but i'm a mother after all, I don't think I can be that cruel. I think I will name her 'pending issues' for she will be born whilst her mother is still worrying about how much the past will affect her future. I hope 'pending issues' won't trouble me. I hope she can be my hope.
Insomnia and Eating issues have grown to be teenagers now yet each one of them is still worrying their mother in a different way. Insomnia wouldn't let me rest and stop crying. Eating issues wouldn't let me have a peace of mind or a healthy life. 'Pending issues' is soon coming by...
My dear husband; Pain, I have never really enjoyed the idea of having a man so obsessed with me. I've had enough of you. I want to be free once again. I want to breath fresh air once again. I want to fly and be happy. I just don't want to live with you anymore...
I am sorry Pain...I really need a divorce from you. Please grant me that as soon as possible. I already kept the divorce papers under my pillow. My very wet pillow. I hope the papers are still safe. Please do sign them soon. If you truly love me then do it for my sake. Please. Allow me to be the free woman I've always wanted to be. Don't worry about our children. I promise to take good care of them. I was also planning to change their names soon. I was thinking of calling our son, Brave instead of Insomnia. As for our daughter Eating issue, let's call her 'Love' and when our last baby finally comes by, I will call her 'Hope'. I am sure you like the names right? I know you can trust me to take care of them and raise them with good manners and health. Please do take care of yourself as well and I hope we can meet years from now where your name would then be something like 'Delight' or probably 'Euphoria?'. No, 'Jubilant' is even better! My name then would be 'Joy' and you will be able to chorus our new names once again, 'Jubilant and Joy'. I promise we will be happy then.
Before I end this heart-breaking letter, I want to really thank you for being there with me throughout; for the lessons learnt and for the undying love.
Your so-long-loving wife,
Your soon-divorcee,
Paranoia.
