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Sunday, 18 December 2016

KINYONGA NA TAUSI (sehemu ya 4)




Mwandishi: Naima Baghozi

Unaweza kusoma sehemu ya 3: 

Rafiki zake nao wakazidi kutilia mkazo ombi hilo: "Tafadhali Tausi, tafadhali sana, msaidie maskini amesumbuka sana..." wakaendelea hivyo kwa muda kumnasihi Tausi ili akubali. Wakati wote huo Paka alikuwa amejificha juu ya mti karibu kuanguka kwa kujizuia na kicheko maana kila akikaa anastaajabu kwa nini Kinyonga ana lazima ya kujibadilisha rangi yake.

Tausi naye alipoona Kinyonga ananyenyekea sana pamoja na rafiki zake moyo wake ukaingia imani na kuamua: "Sawa nimekubali kumpatia Kinyonga manyoya yangu...lakini sijui kama yatamsaidia..."

Basi hapo hapo Tausi akaanza kujikukuta kukuta na kuyapiga piga mabawa yake na mara mbele ya kikundi hicho manyoya kadhaa yakamtoka na kuanguka chini wote wakafurahi na Tumbiri akasogea na kuanza kuyaokota hayo manyoya. Halafu akamwita Kinyonga: “Sogea karibu na mimi rafiki yangu tuanze kazi ya kukurembesha.” Basi Kinyonga akamsogelea na wenzi wao pia wakajisogeza ili wapate kuona vipi manyoya ya Tausi yataweza kumbadilisha Kinyonga rangi ya mwili wake.

Tumbiri akachukuwa manyoya na kuyaweka juu ya mgongo wa Kinyonga na kuanza kuyasugua kwa ustadi na umakinifu mkubwa. Wote wakawa wanazuia pumzi wakisubiri kwa hamu kuona mabadiliko yatakavyoanza kutokea. Tumbiri aliendelea kufanya ufundi huo kwa makini na subira kubwa mpaka mikono ikaanza kumuuma kwa machofu lakini hakuna hata dalili moja ya mabadiliko iloonekana.

Paka, muda wote huo alikuwa akizuia kicheko chake hapo juu ya mti, hakuweza kujizuia tena. Mara wote waliinua macho waliposikia: “Hahaha-hehehe-hahaha- Nyinyi mnachekesha kweli kweli, hahaha, hehehe! Hata mbavu zinaniuma. Vipi mnaweza kubadilisha tulivyoumbwa? Hahaha...”

Wote walioko chini walikasirika sana na Paka. Kinyonga akamjibu Paka na kumwambia: “We Paka, we endelea tu kunicheka, iko siku hicho kicheko chako kitakukwamia kooni…”

Wakiwa bado wako hapo hapo alitokea mwanadamu akiwa katika matembezi yake. Akaona mkusanyiko wa wanyama hawa utadhani wako kwenye mkutano muhimu, basi akawakurubia na kuwasalimu.
“Habari zenu?” Wakajibu kwa pamoja: “Nzuri.”
“Mbona mumekusanyika? Mna mkutano?”
Akajibu Kinyonga: “Huu mkusanyiko ni kwa ajili yangu na pengine wewe ndie utakaeweza kunisaidia.”
“Ni msaada gani unaouhitaji kwangu?” 

Basi Kinyonga akaanza kwa utaratibu kumweleza binadamu shida yake tangu mwanzo hadi mwisho, naye binadamu alisikiliza kwa makini na mwisho akatabasamu tu.

Kinyonga akmuuliza: “Utaweza kunisaidia?”
Mwanadamu akamjibu: “Nimekusikiza kilio chako na nimekufahamu vizuri. Lakini si unafahamu Muumba pekee ndie anaeweza kubadilisha maumbile yetu?”
“Sasa nifanye nini? Mimi nataka  sana niwe na mwili wa rangi rangi…”

Mwanadamu akaonyesha ni kama yuko kwenye mawazo mazito. Basi wote walibaki kimya wakisubiri atatoa uamuzi gani. Mwishowe akasema: “Kinyonga, mimi nimefikiri sana na nimeona umwombe Bwana Mola akupatie huo mwili wa rangi rangi unaotaka. Yeye ndie aliekuumba hivyo na yeye peke yake ndie atakayeweza kukubadilisha, basi muombe usiku na mchana na akipenda atakupa hizo rangi uzitakazo kwa mwili wako, sawa?”

Kinyonga na rafiki zake wakakubali kuwa hilo ndilo jawabu la sawa na wote wakamshukuru mwanadamu, akashika njia yake na kuondoka.

Kombamwiko akasema: “Kinyonga, usijali hata sisi kama rafiki zako tutakusaidia kumwomba Bwana Mola, au sivyo wenzangu?” Wote wakajibu: “Naam, sote tuko pamoja.” Paka alipoona bado wanaendelea na wazimu wao aliondoka na kuenda zake akiwaacha na ujinga wao- ndivyo alivyofikiria yeye. 

Ibada ya Kinyonga na rafiki zake zikaanza.Usiku na mchana, wakipumzika kidogo tu. Kila kukipambazuka wakimtizama Kinyonga hawaoni mabadiliko yoyote. Lakini hawakuchoka wakaendelea kuomba sana na kwa unyenyekevu. Kwa machofu mengi usiku wa kuamkia siku ya saba usingizi uliwashinda nguvu wakapotelewa na usingizi bila hata ya kuhisi. 
Asubuhi na mapema, kulipopambazuka tu na Jua kujitokeza, wa kwanza kuinuka alikuwa Sungura, akawatizama wenzake akawaona wote bado wako usingizini, akajiuliza: “Hivi sote tumeishia kulala bila ya kumwombea rafiki yetu Kinyonga?”

Kisha akageuka huku na huku kumtafuta Kinyonga amelala wapi, akawa hamuoni. Akafanya wasiwasi na kuwaamsha Tumbiri, Tausi na Kombamwiko. Wote wakashtuka kuwa wamelala usiku huu uliopita. Wakauliza: “Kuna nini?”
Sungura akawajibu: “Sote tumepitikiwa na usingizi na hata hatukuweza kumwombea rafiki yetu na sasa hata simuoni, hebu sasa tumtafuteni.” Wakazunguka zunguka wakimtafuta rafiki yao kwa wasiwasi kwani usiku wote walikuwa pamoja.
Hawakufika mbali mara kwa mshangao mkubwa walisimama kwa pamoja midomo yao yote ikiwa wazi isitoke sauti hata moja…

Mbele ya macho yao kulikuwa na jiwe na ubavuni mwake kulikuwa na maua ya rangi ya manjano kijani na nyekundu. Rafiki yao Kinyonga alikuwa amelala usingizi mzito juu ya hilo jiwe mfano ni kama alikuwa anaota jua, asilolijua ni kuwa dua yake imejibiwa. Rafiki zake ndio walikuwa wameona. Kinyonga alikuwa amerembeka kweli. Rangi yake ya mwili iko sawa na rangi zile za maua ubavuni mwake, yaani ngozi yakeimejigawanya rangi za manjano, kijani na nyekundu.
Kwa furaha nyingi hawakuweza kujizuia, kwa shangwe na nderemo na hamu wakamwamsha Kinyonga. Naye Kinyonga akaonyesha ni kama ametoka kwenye usingizi mzito. Akifungua macho yake vizuri akaona rafiki zake wanaruka ruka kwa furaha na kuimba: 
“Kinyonga amefaulu, Kinyonga amefaulu, sasa ni mrembo…”

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Ungana nami katka kipande cha mwisho wa stori hii karibuni in shaa Allah...

Saturday, 17 December 2016

KINYONGA NA TAUSI (sehemu ya 3)





Mwandishi: Naima Baghozi


Maskini Kinyonga akajitizama na kuona michirizi ya rangi iliyokuwa ikitiririka kutoka mwilini mwake. Moyo ulimuuma na machozi kumbubujika buji buji akiuona urembo wake huooo unamtoka. Kombamwiko alimbembeleza sana na kujaribu kila njia ya kumnyamazisha lakini wapi…ndio mwanzo Kinyonga alikuwa anazidisha kilio mpaka mwisho Kombamwiko akamwambia: “Sikiza rafiki yangu, usilie sana. Naona ni bora urudi kwa Tumbiri umuombe akusaidie tena na sasa umeshajua ukiona mvua ukimbie wala usikaribie maji yoyote, sawa?”

Kinyonga hapo akapata moyo kidogo na kuamua kufanya hivyo. “Shukrani sana Kombamwiko kwa nasiha yako nzuri, naona ndivyo nitakavyofanya. Kwaheri kwa sasa , wacha nianze safari ya kwenda kwa Tumbiri , tutaonana.”
“Kwaheri ya kuonana na nakutakia kila la heri.” 

Kinyonga akashika njia ya kurudia huko huko alikotoka. Safari yenyewe ilikuwa si fupi lakini aliamua kwenda hivyo hivyo maana lengo lake ni kubadili rangi ya mwili wake. Basi akaenda kwa mwendo wa kasi kadiri alivyoweza mpaka alipofika nusu ya njia akakutana na Sungura katika shughuli zake za kuchimba chimba akijitafutia chakula. 

Akamsalimia kwa furaha : “Aah! Sungura rafiki yangu, habari za siku nyingi?” Sungura akamjibu : “ Nzuri Kinyonga. Ni kweli tumepotezana kwa muda mrefu sana. Hivi unaelekea wapi?” 
“Kwa vile nimekuona wewe pengine sina haja ya kwenda nilikokuwa ninaenda.” 
“kwani ulikuwa unaenda wapi? Na mimi ninaweza kukusaidia vipi?” Sungura akauliza tena.
“Wewe Sungura, sote tunakufahamu kwa ujanja na werevu wako ndio nimeona wewe utaweza kunipa ushauri bora nipate lengo langu.” Basi Kinyonga akaendelea na kumweleza kisa chake tangu mwanzo hadi mwisho. 
Sungura akamuuliza: “Kwa ufupi unataka uwe na rangi kama za Tausi au sivyo?”
“Ndivyo,” akajibu Kinyonga. 
Sungura akamwambia : “Mimi naona bora uende kwa Tausi umuombe akutolee manyoya mawili matatu hivi ujifutilie juu ya mwili wako na pengine utakuwa na rangi kama yeye.”
Kinyonga akashangaa sana na na huku akiwaza vipi tangu mwanzo hakufikiria hivyo. “Aah! Sungura si nimesema wewe u mwerevu sana, utakuja na mimi unisaidie kumwomba Tausi?”

Sungura akakubali kurudi naye. Walipotaka kuondoka walimuona Tumbiri anakuja. Alipowasili aliwasalimia na kuuliza kilichokuwa kinaendelea na sababu ya Kinyonga kutokuwa na rangi. Basi Kinyonga akamweleza kile kilichotokea na walichokuwa wananuia kufanya yeye na Sungura.

Tumbiri akamuonea huruma na kumwambia : “Usihuzunike rafiki yangu hata mimi nitakwenda na nyinyi tukamtaradhie kwa vizuri Tausi ili akupatie hayo manyoya yake.”

Basi safari ya watatu hao ikaanza kwa mwendo wa haraka. Mara njiani wakamkuta Paka, nae aliona mbio walizokuwa wanakuja nazo. Mwanzoni alikuwa hajamwona Kinyonga lakini walipomkaribia akamuona Kinyonga bila ya rangi rangi zake akaanza na kicheko chake: “Hahahaha, hehehehe Kinyonga hahaha ziwapi rangi zako?” Kinyonga kwa hasira akawaambia Tumbiri na Sungura: “Mwacheni huyu Paka na ujinga wake. Twendeni zetu.” Wakaondoka kwa haraka.  Paka akaamua kuwafuata nyuma nyuma ajue wanakwenda wapi na wanakwenda kufanya nini.

Bila ya kujua kama Paka anawafuata kisirisiri, Kinyonga na maswahibu zake waliendelea na safari yao ya kwenda kwa Tausi. Kabla ya kuwasili kwa Tausi wakampata Kombamwiko mbele yao. Akamuuliza Kinyonga: “Mbona rafiki yangu umerudi hivyo hivyo bila kupaka rangi zako?”

Kinyonga akamweleza nini wameamua kufanya. Basi Kombamwiko akaamua kuwafuata. Msafara ukaendelea mpaka kwa Tausi. Tausi kama kawaida alikuwa akizunguka zunguka kwa maringo katika bustani. Mara akauona msafara unamwingilia wa Tumbiri, Sungura, Kinyonga na Kombamwiko.

Asiyemuona alikuwa ni Paka maana alikuwa amejificha wasimuone. Hamu yake nikutaka kujua kuna sababu gani ya wote hawa kuja mpaka kwa Tausi.  Tausi mwenyewe aliona ajabu kuwaona wote hawa pamoja kwani kwa kawaida kila mmoja huwa kivyake. Akaona bora awaulize: “Habari zenu? Muna nini leo, mbona mmeandamana kuja kwangu?”
Akajibu Sungura: “Nzuri Tausi. Sisi tumejikusanya kwako na ombi dogo tukutaradhie kama utaweza kutusaidia. Tausi akashangaa huku akiwaza ombi gani hilo lililowafanya hawa wote kujikusanya na kuja kwake. Akaamua kutaka kujuwa: “Ombi gani hilo? Hebu niambieni na nikiweza nitakusaidieni."

Tumbiri akapata moyo kidogo akasongea mbele na kusema: "Tausi, wewe unajua vizuri vipi Kinyonga anatamani kuwa na mwili wa rangi rangi kama wewe sivyo?"
Tausi akajibu: "Naam ni kweli, kwa hivyo munataka mimi nifanye nini?"

Kinyonga akajisogeza mwenyewe na kumweleza mambo yote yaliyojiri tangu alipoachana na yeye mpaka muda ule walipofika kwake. Akamalizia na kusema: 
"Sasa nakuomba unisaidie na manyoya yako mawili matatu ili nijipake mwilini mwangu na pengine nitakuwa na rangi nzuri kama zako."

Rafiki zake nao wakazidi kutilia mkazo ombi hilo: "Tafadhali Tausi, tafadhali sana, msaidie maskini amesumbuka sana..." wakaendelea hivyo kwa muda kumnasihi Tausi ili akubali. Wakati wote huo Paka alikuwa amejificha juu ya mti karibu kuanguka kwa kujizuia na kicheko maana kila akikaa anastaajabu kwa nini Kinyonga ana lazima ya kujibadilisha rangi yake.

Tausi naye alipoona Kinyonga ananyenyekea sana pamoja na rafiki zake moyo wake ukaingia imani na kuamua: "Sawa nimekubali kumpatia Kinyonga manyoya yangu...lakini sijui kama yatamsaidia..."

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Itaendelea karibuni in shaa Allah :)

Friday, 16 December 2016

8 KINDS OF WOMEN YOU WILL FIND IN MOMBASA WEDDINGS




Photo Courtesy: Butterfly.4.Weddings (http://www.imgrum.net/)

There are 8 kinds of women you almost never miss in a Swahili/Mombasa wedding:

1. The epitome of beauty: The most beautiful lady in the room. You would almost confuse her to be the bride. She is gorgeous and she knows it. Make-up done perfectly with a Cinderella gown that makes her the princess of the night. She walks gracefully, head held high, appears in the dance floor, interact and doesn't miss out in the photos.

2. Selfieeee: You will never miss a selfie freak. Always taking photos from the moment they step at the hall door, to when they are walking, seated, dancing, eating, all poses you can think off. She could have 50 photos of just a single evening.

3. Make-up gone soo wrong: The kind of lady who makes you question whether you are too ignorant about make-up or she really looks the way you see her. You question her brain, her mirror, her friends, her family, the entire humanity who walked right by her and never said a word. Not even, "honey, I think some water on your face will do you good."?!!

4. Always the dancer: She is the great dancer. She knows her moves well and all songs can be danced even the one you would just sit and have your hand hold your chin? Yeah, that song too. She can dance it. So of course, you never miss her being in the dance floor.

5. Fashion police: The keen eyes scrutinizing what everyone is wearing, what colour, which jewelry, what they should have done differently and what would match best with what. Plus they never miss someone to discuss the fashion NO-NO's with at the wedding.

6. Family-tree narrator: This is the historian. "See the lady in blue? she is the daughter of the woman in green. The woman in green is the step-cousin to your late mother. And your late mother had a great step-grandmother; she is the old lady talking to the young lady. The young lady is your step aunt" bla bla bla... They know most people in the wedding. They can connect the dots of family lineage back to your ancestors. 

7. God! I_AM_BORED woman: She is mostly at the event because she has no choice. She is just staring at people, rarely interacting at all, appreciates the food being served, has a faint smile on her face and the moment the bride sits on the stage, she is gone!

8.The psycho kind of writer ME: The moment she takes a seat, she starts eating. She wants to get done with it already and forget about food. Next she is in pauses between chronic texting syndrome and staring at people silently like a serial killer and psychopath studying her victims. She looks at people like story materials and study expressions, impressions, abbreviations you name it :D She stares at the corner of the eyes of the bride trying to find tears, study body language and think of all the story ideas she can get from one event. There is no selfie taken at all because she is the same way you'd see her on the street buying tomatoes. She can't interact much because hey! 'I am just from greeting someone across the hall. I can't dare do that again. Too much attention.' She is always looking around just in case she sees a familiar face or an old friend. Not that she will walk to go say hi, rather she'll just wave and plaster a big smile like, 'if only you were closer i'd give you a hug.' You know, Mombasa weddings are partly re-unions, everyone knows everyone sorta thing. She looks confused and lost. All people are going to take photos with the bride she is still seated at the far end row alone with empty seats beside and around her. She is trying to dissect the song lines and read between the lines and sometimes question the sanity of the singers with very cheesy lines. She waits until the bride is walking right beside her so that she can hug her and congratulate her. Then hurrah! 'I think I just got something to write about from this.' :D Okay I know I am bizarre and weird but at least you got something to read today! ;) Have a blessed weekend lovely people :D

Wednesday, 14 December 2016

FOR THE SAKE OF ALL THOSE WHO HAVE GONE




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WARNING: THIS ARTICLE CONTAINS VERY DISTURBING CONTENT

For those who know me well enough, they'd tell you you'd rarely see me in the middle of a crowd. It makes my head spin. In any event or occasion i'd either be within the two/three rows and most probably at the side-end of the line. It is always easier to get away you know. The nearer to the door, the better. So yesterday I was at the Iqra Youth foundation seminar and they had us to follow the lines. I ended up right at the middle of the third line. So before the event started, we had almost two hours. There were some nasheeds being played. One of the songs was one of the songs my late Mama two loved. Immediately upon hearing it, I could feel her face right in front of me. The memories, the laughter, her jokes...I started crying. I thought it would just a be a tear or two but then it almost became like an outburst of a spring. I was nervously and anxiously searching for my handkerchief in my bag with my head bowed so down almost getting buried in the bag. Obviously I didn't want anyone see me cry. It was too early in the morning for anyone to be seen crying. I could't find my hanky so I just used my hijab to wipe the over-streaming tears. My younger sister was seated next to me, I could see how deep in thoughts she was. I guessed that she probably was thinking about her too but no, I wasn't about to let her see me in tears and make her cry too. I am the older sister remember? In that roller coaster of thoughts, my mind replayed all those depressing videos I had seen the previous night of Aleppo. I started crying even more. Here I am crying for losing one important person what about them?! Losing everything all at once; homes, schools, hospitals, families...Seeing your sisters being gang raped right in front of their eyes...God! It made me feel miserable. The helplessness, the burning feeling...God knows how many times I kept my head bowed down in my bag, pretending to still be searching for the hanky. Looking behind after every two minutes to check whether my best friend had arrived to my rescue. My head was spinning, I could hear the laughter around, people busy chattering away, heads bowed down to their phones with no easy exit to the washroom so I stayed put, had a monologue trying to stay calm while taking deep breaths. God knows how many times I've wanted to disappear in such situations; be invisible, dissipate totally if possible. That is what helplessness does to us. Makes one angry, stressed, sad, frustrated all at the same time. It makes one question humanity, question God, question so many things...

This is perhaps one of the worst times to live in, one of the worst centuries to exist in. You see the humanity burn away into ashes. You see misery. You see rivers of blood flowing in a river-less town. You see children being tortured. You see women being raped. You witness a lot while you can do NOTHING about it. NOTHING.

https://youtu.be/I4L-UyMOHxE (please follow the links to watch full videos)


But then this isn't about Aleppo or Syria only. This is not about religion, race or politics. It is about the lives of innocent people. This is about Yemen, Palestine, Burma and many MANY other places around the world. It is about humanity. It is about the universe.

                                                   https://youtu.be/BvdLdrF8928



(The above video is of a child being electrocuted in Burma and his crime? His mother, his parents are Muslims)

They cry, they scream, they die. They are calling unto us? Where are we?! Where are we in helping them? As much as we keep tweeting, updating, blogging, instagraming about them, we have to REALLY ACTUALLY LITERALLY pray for them. Let us not just say, 'let us pray for them.' We need to take action NOW! We need to organize protests. We need to organize tahajjud for prayers for the whole world. We need to go back to Allah because He? He is the only one who can help them.

                                           https://youtu.be/GWgvxyGvJ6U

I am not trying to torture you too with these videos. I hope you can see the importance of your prayers and protests at this moment, to see the blessings in your life that you barely thank God for...to see how much privileged you are. Alhamdulilah ala kul hal.

Take heart people. God is seeing this all. He is watching and He is preparing great reward for all these people. Take heart that God has a greater plan. That He is still in control; always has been, always will be. Let's all turn towards Him. Let's complain to Him. Let us beg Him. Let us PRAY PRAY PRAY! Let us pray for the sake of all those who are gone and those still clutching onto the feeble straws :(



Ameen thumma ameen! ;(

Monday, 12 December 2016

BLUE TICKS AND TYPING...




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The past two days at the first annual Islamic conference were just A.M.A.Z.I.N.G!!! Alhamdulilah; just the kind of things that can make me feel the thrills for the rest of the year :D I mean, one sheikh Rishard can make your entire week wonderful so you can imagine having him plus sheikh Kishki plus Al Qahtani plus Abu Hamza plus Ismail plus Abdulghani Bashir plus sheikh Suleiman from different parts of the world, all under the same roof on the same stage! May Allah bless them for all their outstanding lectures and to all the organizers, volunteers and donors who made this event a major success mashallah. It was too exciting I wish I could literally drag everyone to come and learn from them. If you missed it, you REALLY missed out! Lol okay I won't add any more pepper to the wounds but I can share something I learnt from sheikh Abdulrahman Mansur Al-Qahtani; one the most humorous and coolest sheikhs of our century :D Maybe next time we can have both Mufti Menk and Nouman Ali Khan on the same stage and we all know how that conference will rock! Ameen to this :D

So sheikh Al-Qahtani talked about the promises made by Allah in the qur'an and how Allah is speaking directly to us. So many times we are swept off by life, with it's tests, with it's demands, always busy, always in a rush with the worldly affairs and it's fanciness we forget the most important thing; what brought us into this world.

The Prophet salallaahu 'alayhi wa aleh wa sallam said that Allah said (in hadith Qudsi): "Myself, Mankind and Jinn are in a great serious state. I create them, then they worship other gods that they make for themselves. I bless them with my bounties, then they thank someone else for what I sent them. My Mercy descends to them while their evil deeds ascend to Me. I endear them with My gifts even though I have no need to any of them while they alienate themselves from Me with their sins even though they are desperate for My help. Whoever returns to Me , I accept him no matter how far he is. And whoever turns away from Me, I approach him and call on him. Whosoever leaves a sin for My sake, I reward him with many gifts and whoever seeks to please Me, I seek to please him. Whoever acknowledges My Will and Power in whatever he does, I make the iron bend for his sake. My dear people are those who are with Me (i.e. whoever would like to be with Me, let him supplicate to Me and remember Me). Whoever thanks Me, I grant him more blessings, whoever obeys Me, I raise him and endeavor him more. Whoever disobeys Me , I keep the doors of My Mercy open for him, if he returns to Me, I bestow him with My Love , since I love those who repent and purify themselves for My Sake. If he does not repent, I still treat him by putting them in hardship to purify him. Whoever favours Me over others, I favour them over others. I reward every single good deed ten times over or seven hundred times over to countless times over. I count every single bad deed as one unless the person repents and asks for My Forgiveness in which case I forgive even that one. I take into account any little good deed and I forgive even major sins. My Mercy supercedes My Anger, My Tolerance supercedes My Blame, My Forgiveness supercedes My Punishment as I am more Merciful with My slaves than a mother with her child."

Subhanallah, the weight of this hadith qudsi is heavy. So much to question ourselves about. Like how much Allah keeps blessing us, granting us what we want, forgiving us, forgiving us again and again and what do we send back to Him? 'their evil deeds ascend to Me.' Yet still He made promises to us; the ungrateful weak humans.

The first promise is: "So remember Me, I will remember You." Surat Baqarah: verse 152
I am pretty sure we have come across those angry memes on the blue ticks on whatsapp. You are in dire need of help or perhaps just someone to talk to, the ticks have turned blue, the last seen is every past second you check...yet no reply. It is annoying, sometimes heart-breaking. But this is us human-beings. Have you tried Allah? Have you tried talking to Him directly? In your sujood? In your dua? Anywhere anytime??! Do you remember Him at all? We keep saying that communication is a two-way thing then how do we expect Allah to remember any of us when we don't do the same to Him? Not that He needs us, but because WE NEED HIM! So remember Allah as many times and in many places as possible. Remember Him and He has promised to remember you!

The second promise is: 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you (in favour)' Surat Ibrahim: verse 7
But how many times do we thank Allah? Sincerely thanking Allah from the bottom of our hearts? For both the good and bad in our lives? He says: 'when you thank me, I will give you more'. It is a promise. So thank Him. Thank Him for every small and big, Good and bad. And remember; even that the bad you go through is good in disguise. Again, have trust in Allah! :)

The third promise: 'Call unto Me (and) I shall respond to you! Surat Ghafir : verse 60.
The thing with Allah is that your messages to Him are delivered spontaneously and so are His replies. You may not know it but Allah has already answered your prayer the moment you make it! Even when you don't see an answer, His silence is the answer. Sheikh Al Qahatni said: Allah answers your duas in 3 ways: I know you have heard of this so many times but look at it keenly this time round. Let it sink in the mind.

1. He answers your dua immediately. Yep that is when I say; Blue ticks and typing (not literally, His way is way faster than that but you get me right?!) ;) Trust me, if you have ever made a dua with so much sincerity from the heart, you will relate to this perfectly.

2. He doesn't give you what you want so that He prevents you from some harm. We have cried. Most of us or all of us for something we wanted so badly. You cry your eyes and heart out but the answer you get is 'silence'. You pray and cry in days, in months, in years and you give up because you think Allah doesn't feel you, doesn't love you...then some day years later something better happens in your life and you are so happy and you just say, 'I've never been happier that what I wanted never happened!' Ever done that? or heard someone say that? It could be for a job they wanted so badly, or a spouse, or a journey or a child...it can be anything. Yes, that is Allah, loving you and protecting you always. Have trust in Him!

3. Allah doesn't answer your dua so that you can get abundant reward in jannah. All this pain and heart-ache you are going through right now, be patient about it. Be happy with what Allah has prepared for you. Nabii Ayub aleyhi salam was tested with sickness and loss of wealth and children and Allah answered his dua 18 years later. Mind you, he was a prophet and his dua is immediately accepted yet Allah answered him only after all those years. Be patient. Don't say that is a prophet I can't wait that long. Yes, but you can wait for as long as you can.


There are several other promises Allah has made to us, but we are just too blind to see or too unfocused to understand. Verily, in the qur'an and hadiths and hadith al qudsi, you will find Allah repeatedly telling us talking to us, promising us, giving us hope...

"Abu Dharr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, relates from his Lord that Allah said:

يَا عِبَادِي إِنِّي حَرَّمْتُ الظُّلْمَ عَلَى نَفْسِي وَجَعَلْتُهُ بَيْنَكُمْ مُحَرَّمًا فَلَا تَظَالَمُوا

O my servants, I have forbidden oppression for myself and have made it forbidden among you, so do not oppress one another.

يَا عِبَادِي كُلُّكُمْ ضَالٌّ إِلَّا مَنْ هَدَيْتُهُ فَاسْتَهْدُونِي أَهْدِكُمْ

O my servants, all of you are astray except for those I have guided, so seek guidance from me and I will guide you.

يَا عِبَادِي كُلُّكُمْ جَائِعٌ إِلَّا مَنْ أَطْعَمْتُهُ فَاسْتَطْعِمُونِي أُطْعِمْكُمْ

O my servants, all of you are hungry except for those I have fed, so seek food from me and I will feed you.

يَا عِبَادِي كُلُّكُمْ عَارٍ إِلَّا مَنْ كَسَوْتُهُ فَاسْتَكْسُونِي أَكْسُكُمْ

O my servants, all of you are naked except for those I have clothed, so seek clothing from me and I will clothe you.

يَا عِبَادِي إِنَّكُمْ تُخْطِئُونَ بِاللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ وَأَنَا أَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا فَاسْتَغْفِرُونِي أَغْفِرْ لَكُمْ

O my servants, you sin by night and day and I forgive all sins, so seek forgiveness from me and I will forgive you.

يَا عِبَادِي إِنَّكُمْ لَنْ تَبْلُغُوا ضَرِّي فَتَضُرُّونِي وَلَنْ تَبْلُغُوا نَفْعِي فَتَنْفَعُونِي

O my servants, you will not be able to cause harm to me and you will not be able to cause benefit to me.

يَا عِبَادِي لَوْ أَنَّ أَوَّلَكُمْ وَآخِرَكُمْ وَإِنْسَكُمْ وَجِنَّكُمْ كَانُوا عَلَى أَتْقَى قَلْبِ رَجُلٍ وَاحِدٍ مِنْكُمْ مَا زَادَ ذَلِكَ فِي مُلْكِي شَيْئًا

O my servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you, to become as pious as the most pious heart of anyone of you, that would not increase My kingdom in anything.

يَا عِبَادِي لَوْ أَنَّ أَوَّلَكُمْ وَآخِرَكُمْ وَإِنْسَكُمْ وَجِنَّكُمْ كَانُوا عَلَى أَفْجَرِ قَلْبِ رَجُلٍ وَاحِدٍ مَا نَقَصَ ذَلِكَ مِنْ مُلْكِي شَيْئًا

O my servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you, to be as wicked as the most wicked heart of anyone of you, that would not decrease My kingdom in anything.

يَا عِبَادِي لَوْ أَنَّ أَوَّلَكُمْ وَآخِرَكُمْ وَإِنْسَكُمْ وَجِنَّكُمْ قَامُوا فِي صَعِيدٍ وَاحِدٍ فَسَأَلُونِي فَأَعْطَيْتُ كُلَّ إِنْسَانٍ مَسْأَلَتَهُ مَا نَقَصَ ذَلِكَ مِمَّا عِنْدِي إِلَّا كَمَا يَنْقُصُ الْمِخْيَطُ إِذَا أُدْخِلَ الْبَحْرَ

O my servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you, to rise up in one place and make a request of me, and were I to give everyone what he requested, that would not decrease what I have any more than a needle would decrease the sea if put into it.

يَا عِبَادِي إِنَّمَا هِيَ أَعْمَالُكُمْ أُحْصِيهَا لَكُمْ ثُمَّ أُوَفِّيكُمْ إِيَّاهَا فَمَنْ وَجَدَ خَيْرًا فَلْيَحْمَدْ اللَّهَ وَمَنْ وَجَدَ غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ فَلَا يَلُومَنَّ إِلَّا نَفْسَهُ

O my servants, it is only your deeds that I record for you and then recompense for you, so let him who finds good praise Allah and let him who finds other than that blame no one but himself."

Keep having faith, keep being strong, keep thanking Allah, keep trusting Him and most importantly; keep smiling :)

Sunday, 4 December 2016

UNBROKEN WINGS; THE NEST

CHAPTER THREE



Photo Courtesy: http://www.terapeak.com/



"Being born in an Asian society with disability has a stigma of its own and discrimination. This was the situation before Dear Diary was born.
After having struggled to live up to everyone's expectations, having adjusted to all kinds of situations environmentally and also the attitude of people taking me for granted, always keeping the disabled on the side, not including them in the community in any kind of decision making, is what gave birth to Dear Diary.

Down the line after 10 years I am glad that the way people look at me now is different from 10 years ago. Now I am considered part of the society. It wasn't easy to build a name to keep up to, the pace to keep a smile and keep going, but I have proved my stand. Today I am respected. People want to be associated with me. People want to support me in all that I do purely for humanity and this is a great achievement.

However there is still discrimination where marriage is concerned. People especially in the Asian society have a mindset that a person with disability should not fall in love or have a partner whereas the same disabled person can be part of everything else in the society.

So it makes me wonder why a man or a woman with disability in the Asian society or culture is considered to be not in need of love or to be loved by that special someone..." Nafisa Khanbhai

We have probably seen so many disabled people in our lives; on the streets, in our work places, in our homes and in our communities. As much as they could be outstanding, hardworking, beautiful, strong…there would always be a ‘but’ in the middle of the sentence.
“She is capable and talented to do the job, but she doesn’t have legs…”
“He has outstanding qualifications, but he is deaf…”
“She is beautiful, she would have made a wonderful wife and mother, but…”

The ‘buts’ could go on and on forever and this is because we no longer look at them as normal human beings as what we are. But this is the funny part of life right? Someone ‘normal’ could be so depressed, with so much on their plate, their hearts could be tearing apart, they can barely focus and think straight, yet we still give them the chance to work, to get married, to have a family and a social life, because ‘everyone deserves a chance to prove what they are really capable of.’ Then why can’t we offer the same opportunities to those who are disabled yet still can do what any other normal person can do?

I can’t totally deny that there are some disabled people who can’t do some things because it is simply beyond their power, beyond their abilities and capabilities but there are those who have stood out from the crowd. They are always there but they end up seating on the pavements of the road, begging. Sometimes it is because this is the easiest way out of their troubles but sometimes, they really have no other way except this. And this is because you have stigmatized them; we have.

Have you ever seen the fuss we make when someone gets married or marries a blind girl, or an albino, or a man with no legs, or a lady who is both deaf and dumb? We make it seem like they are aliens, they belong to a world that is close to ours but not exactly the same as ours. Why then don’t we exaggerate the same way when someone marries a totally distorted soul? A soul that is crying out for help? Is it because they are beautiful on the outside or that they are good at covering their pain with a lovely smile?

I am not saying that people with depression issues don’t deserve to be married or be employed or be happy in their lives because anyway, we are all victims of the pain in our hearts. We just endure it differently. But my point is, if we can accept ourselves with all our unseen imperfections and flaws, why then not accept those whose flaws are visible and can be seen?

Mrs Fatema narrates of how once a visitor came home and found Nafisa in a bad state and she quickly told her that maybe someone did some witchcraft or something of the sort to Nafisa. But Nafisa’s mother is a believer that God tests anyone in any way, and this was their test.

The stigma is there everywhere. People believing that disabled people are cursed or victims of witchcraft or a punishment from God etcetera etcetera so however much they may be friends with them or colleagues, there is still some tension in the air, a gap that is always there to differentiate them; ‘the normal people’ to him/her, ‘the disabled’. There is that fine unseen, yet felt line between these two kinds of people and perhaps this line will exist forever.

Go to supermarkets, Government buildings, malls, Company offices, hospitals, schools, how many actually have ‘disabled-friendly’ environments? Are there any wheelchairs, ramps, sign language translators, brail documents? Ask any disabled person how many times they had to cancel their plans because they can’t climb the stairs? Or that there is no one to communicate to with sign language? How many times have you seen a disabled person board a matatu? Have you seen how hectic it is for them? Are the conductors and drivers patient enough to let them board the vehicle and sit comfortably before rushing off? How many schools are there for the disabled? What is the condition of these schools? Most of the times, they are pathetic and sometimes teachers are the same ones who take advantage of the students’ conditions.

Why do we wait until we have become victims ourselves, or until we fall in love with one of them, or when one of our close friends or family members becomes a disabled, is when we decide to think rationally and humanly about them? These people are most often than not, around us or near us all the time. We just don’t see them or even look at them. We don’t try putting ourselves in their shoes. We never think of how that could be you or me someday. We forget that God has never stopped creating us and that we too could become handicapped at any moment in our lives. And I mean, ANY MOMENT. It could even be right now as you read this…

I am not trying to curse you or anyone else. I am trying to remind you that God can twist your story whenever He wills. You just have to be humble to those less advantaged than you. Try helping out whenever you can to those disabled, even if it is just by granting them your true friendship, loyalty and companionship.

I am just trying to tell you that the next time you see a disabled person, treat them like how you would want someone else to treat you if you were wearing the same shoes...

To be continued...stay tuned :)

Friday, 2 December 2016

KINYONGA NA TAUSI (sehemu ya 2)




Mwandishi: Naima Baghozi



“HAHAHA HAHAHA HEHEHE….” Aliangua kicheko kile huku akiwa chali mara akijipindua hivi na vile maana aliona ajabu kuwa Kinyonga aliamini ataweza kujigeuza rangi ya mwili wake.

Kinyonga alipoona namna anavyocheka paka kwa stihizai alikasirika na kuondoka huku akilini akijiambia, “Nitamwonesha huyu Paka kuwa naweza kujigeuza!”
Basi akaendelea na safari yake mpaka akatokezea pahala penye miti kiasi na hapo akamuona Tumbiri akirukaruka kutoka mti mmoja hadi mwingine katika hali ya kucheza cheza . Alipomuona Kinyonga akasita katika michezo yake.

“Kinyonga, habari ya siku nyingi? Kitambo sijakuona, ulikuwa wapi?” Akajibu Kinyonga : “Nilikuwa huko mbali kwenye boma laa Tausi.” Tumbiri akamuuliza : “Ulikuwa unafanya nini muda woe huo?” Nae akamjibu: “Nilikuwa nikiushangilia na kuufwatilia uzuri wa rangi zake na hasa anapochanua mkia wake. Zile rangi zake zinanipendezea sana mpaka sana mpaka nimetamani kuwa nazo. Je, unaweza kunishauri vipi nitaweza kuzipata rangi hizo nzuri mwilini mwangu?”

Tumbiri akamtazama Kinyonga bila kumwambia kitu kwanza kasha akamwabia: “Hmm! Subiri nifikiri kidogo .” Wakaketi kimya kidogo huku ataumbiri akijikuna kichwa akiwa mwenye bahari ya mawazo. Mara akaruka ghafla juu na chini akimwambia Kinyonga kuwa ameshapata jawabu la suala lake. Kinyonga nae akainua uso wake kwa bashasha na furaha nyingi akimtaka Tumbiri amjibu kwa haraka. “Niambie rafiki yangu, wewe ndiye rafiki yangu wa kikweli kweli.” Tumbiri akamnyamazisha kwa kumwabia: “Unaona giza limeanza kuingia , bora tulale, tupumzike hadi asubuhi. Maonni yangu ni kuwa tukusanye maua ya kila na kila rangi kama mekundu , manjano, zambarau, kijani na kadhalika. Kasha tuyatie maji kidogo na kuyaponda ponda mpaka yatoe rangi, hiyo rangi ukijipaka mwilini mwako kila sehemu rangi tofauti utakuwa mrembo kama Tausi. Unaionaje fikra yangu?”

Kinyonga alishindwa kuficha furaha yake na akajibu kwa wingi wa bashasha: “Maoni yako ni mazuri sana na naona ni njia nzuri kabisa. Haya tulale basi ili tuweze kurauka.”
Basi kila mmoja akashika upande wake na kulala lakini Kinyonga kwa ile hamu aliyokuwa hakuweza kulala vizuri maana aliona hata asubuhi haitofika…

Hata kabla ya kupambazuka vizuri alikuwa tayari kuiianza hiyo shughuli ya ya kutafuta maua . Kwa vishindo kvyake na kufurukuta kwake Tumbiri akainuka nae kwa kughasika akamuuliza Kinyonga : “Mbona unafanya vishindo mpaka umenikatiza usingizi wangu? Mwenyew nilkuwa ninaota ndoto nzuri …”

“Ndoto gani ya saa hizi? Huoni asubuhi imeshafika? Inuka tukatafute hayo maua.” Tumbiri akajibu: “Wewe hata umelala? Sasa hata mwangaza haujatoka. Sawa sawa-tutaona nini hivi? Tusubiri kidogo zaidi.” Basi Kinyonga akawa hana budi ila kusubiri mwangaza utokeze vizuri maana alijua bila ya usaidizi wa Tumbiri hatoweza kufanya lolote.
Akawa anaenda mbele akirudi nyuma huku akijipatia vidudu akijilia. Mwangaza ulipojitokeza vizuri Tumbiri akamwambia:”Haya rafiki yangu wakati umewadia. Twende tukakusanye maua tuje tuanze kazi.”

Kinyonga hakuweza kuficha hamu yakeakasema: “Haya twende zetu.” Wakaondoka na kabla ya kufika mbali wakakiona kiwanja kilichopambika kwa maua ya rangi ainati, yaani kila rangi waliotaka waliipata hapo. Nao hawakuchelewa kuanza kukusanya. Kinyonga alikuwa amebahatika kwani Tumbiri alikuwa na mikon kama ya binadamu kwa hivyo kazi ilifanyika vizuri. Muda si muda Tumbiri akasema: “ninaona haya tuliyoyakusanya yanatoha . Twende zetu.”

Wakarudi maskani yao. Akachukua maji kidogo na jiwe na kuanza kuyaponda ponda yale maua kila rangi kivyake. Yalipotoa rangia alimwambia Kinyonga “Haya rafiki yangu rangi zote ziko tayari njoo nikuake upate kurembeka.”

Kinyonga akasogea mpaka alipo Tumbiri naye akaanza kumpaka rangi moja baada ya moja yaani kijani kisha nyekundu kisha zambarau kisha manjano na rangi nyinginezo kwa ustadi kabisa. Alipomaliza akamwambia : “Eeh Kinyonga umependeza kweli. Sasa sogea ukae penye jua upate kukauka vizuri. Kinyonga akaenda palipo na jua huku akiuliza : “Nimependeza kweli?” Tumbiri akamjibu kuwa kila atakayemwona angemwonea wivu.

Basi akajituliza juani na kwa sababu usiku hakulala vizuri akapatwa na usingizi. Ni kama alikuwa akiota jua.Aliposhtuka ilikuwa imeshafika adhuhuri. Akamuaga Tumbiri kuwa anaaondoka: “Mimi sasa ninarudi nikamwonyeshe paka aliyekuwa akinicheka na kombamwiko aliyesema sitoweza geuka na hasa huyo tausi aliyenidharau.”
Tumbiri akajaribu kunasihi abaki nae zaidi kidogo lakini alikataa kata kata . “Samahani rafiki yangu lakini hujui ile hamu niliyo nayo kuwafikia hao walionidharau. Tutaonana siku nyingine na asante sana kwa usaidizi wako rafiki yangu, wewe peke yako ndiye uliyesimama na mimi.Haya kwaheri ya kuonana…”
“Kwaheri ya kuonana.” Tumbiri akamjibu.

Kinyonga akaanza safari yake ya kurudi maskani yake anapoishi na Tausi. Akatembea kwa muda mrefu, mara akamwona Paka ,akamwita: “Paka, Paka wajidai hunioni. Niangalie, niangalie uone urembo wangu.”  Huku akijigeuza hivi na vile ili aone rangi zake tofauti tofauti. Akaendelea: “Mbona sasa hunicheki, nicheke kama ulivyonicheka mwanzo. Hahahaha-hehehehe.” Akimuigiza vile alivyomcheka mara ya kwanza. Paka akamjibu kwa mshangao: “Aah! Kinyonga, huyu ni wewe kweli?” huku akimzunguka zunguka. Kinyonga hakumjibu kitu. Aliondoka tu na kwenda zake akimwacha Paka kinywa wazi.

Basi safari ikaendelea njia nzima maringo yakimzidi na pia akitafakari vile alivyomuacha Paka na mshangao. Kinyonga akaendelea mpaka alipokutana na kombamwiko. Naye pia hakusita  kuona maajabu ya mabadilko ya Kinyonga ,akamuuliza: “Kinyonga, ni wewe au ni macho yangu? Umekuwa mrembo kweli. Umefanya nini hadi kupata rangi hizo nzuri nzuri mwilini mwako?”

Kinyonga akamjibu: “Sikukosa wa kunisaidia, ingawaje nyinyi huku mlikataa kabisa.”
“Sio tulikataa nawe, ni kuwa hatukujua tukusaidie vipi. Niambie basi ulimpata nani wa kukusaidia?” Kwa maringo zaidi kinyonga akaanza kumwelezea namna Tumbiri alivyomsaidia tangu mwanzo hadi mwisho. Alipomaliza akawa anamuaga Kombamwiko hamu yake kubwa ni kumfikia Tausi ili auone urembo wake. Mara kwa ghafla kukateremka mvua , mvua iliyokua haitarajiwi. Kombamwiko mbio mbio akaingia kwenye kipango chake ili kujikinga na mvua na Kinyonga maskini akawa anahangaika hajui ajifiche wapi, mwisho akapata majani ya mkungu yaliokuwa yameanguka chini akajibarizi hapo.

Haikuchukuwa muda mrefu, mvua kama ilivyoshuka kwa ghafla na pia ikasimama kwa ghafla na pia ikasimama kwa ghafla. Kukawa kimya kwa muda mfupi.
Kombamwiko akatoka makaoni pake na kuangalia Kinyonga alikokuwepo huku akimuita, : “ Kinyonga, Kinyonga..,uko wapi?”

Kwa utaratibu Kinyonga akajitokeza na kujibu “ Mimi niko hapa..” Akanyamaza ghafla kwa kumuona jinsi Kombamwiko alivyokuwa akimtizama kwa sura ya huzuni kubwa.
“Mbona unaniangalia hivyo?” Akauliza. Jawabu alilopata ni: “Urembo umeshakutoka rafiki yangu …”
“Ukimaanisha nini?” Kinyonga akashangaa. Kombamwiko akauliza: “Umesahau kuwa si maumbile yako bali ni rangi tu ulizojipaka?”
“Kwa hivyo…?” Kinyonga akarudi kuuliza. “Kwa hivyo ile mvua iliyokupiga imebakisha michiriziya rangi tumwilini mwaako tena zimechanganyika changanyika. Hebu tizama chini yako huoni mitiririko ya rangi?”Maskini Kinyonga akajitizama na kuona michirizi ya ya rangi iliyokuwa ikitiririka kutoka mwilini mwake. Moyo ulimuuma na machozi kumbubujika buji buji akiuona urembo wake huoooo unamtoka.

Itaendelea karibuni...